One of the basics of sub-atomic physics is the ability to see energy either as a particle or a wave of probability. It depends on how you CHOOSE to see it. (Go ahead; check me out on the Internet) Life is like this. When evidence presents itself, we have a CHOICE as to how to view it, as a good thing or a bad thing. And here’s the funny part, some people, even when viewing something REALLY, REALLY GOOD, choose to use that evidence to feel BAD about themselves!
When a friend has a success, instead of seeing that success as evidence of abundance in the world, this person compares where they are to where their friend is and chooses to feel bad about themselves. This is the essence of jealousy, envy, self-loathing. Love First says that when you can truly be happy for someone else’s success, you have reached a place of allowing your own success and well-being. We must resonate with abundance before we can have it in our lives.
“Today, I will notice if I feel good when others are doing well, or if I am choosing to allow their abundance to create feelings of envy and jealousy. I will commit to working on believing that there is enough success to go around for me, too!”