Just to explain the difference between Selfish and self-centered. The love of Self is necessary to have a balanced life. This part of you that is eternal and connected to all energy is pure love so your relationship to YOU is your primary one, from which all other relationships start.
Self-centered is feeling that you are alone, everything happens TO you, that it is you against everyone else and no one understands. This is the isolationism which is the basis of all fear and self-loathing. How can you love yourself if your basic belief is that everyone is out to get you?
“Today I will think about the difference between Self Love and Self-centerdism, and see how I can do better.”