The principle of LOVE FIRST is to start with the SELF. The love and respect of the self is the cornerstone of all integrity. The appreciation of the self is necessary before you can love and respect anyone else. This is my definition of SELFISH.
On the face of it, to be SELFISH appears to be completely the opposite of the goal to LOVE FIRST, but it is the SELF-CENTERED ego that is truly the one to watch out for!
My definition of SELF-CENTERED is the belief that I am all alone; I am the victim of those who would conquer me.
“Today I will be SELFISH enough to focus on feeling good. From the place of appreciation for myself. I will then turn my attention to those around me and become the one to uplift and inspire others to remembering who they really are and that we are all on this journey together.”